Nobody says it is going to be easy- the extra distances make many things unachievable. Long-distance also makes the simplest things the sweetest, being able to hold the other person’s hand, eating together at the same table feeling each other touch, taking a walk together, these small wishes could suddenly mean so much more in a long-distance relationship.
Its tough to maintain Long-Distance relationship, but following are some tips to keep your love alive and strong:
• Be honest with each other
Honesty is the most important thing in any relationship, it makes your bond stronger. Never try to hide anything from your partner. Talk about your feelings of fear, insecurity, jealousy, whatsoever. Be open and honest with each other.
• Avoid excessive communication
In this age of Skyping and texting, it seems that maintaining a Long-Distance relationship would be easier than ever before. But taking for 5-6 hours a day or chatting for the whole day is not going to make your relationship strong anyway. Even excessive communication can make you loose interest in each other.
• Do Things Together
1. Watch documentary on YouTube at the same time.
2. Play an online game together
3. Take a walk together
4. Go online-shopping together
• Make Visits to Each Other
Visits will be like fireworks, glitter bins, confetti, rainbows and butterflies, in a long-distance relationship. After waiting, when you finally meet each other, it will give you a sign of relief. Little things like kissing, hiding hands, etc. Which are common to other couples, will be very special for you.
• Set Some Rules
You should do best to stay out of situations that might makes your long-distance partner feel uncomfortable or threatened. Both of you should be clear about what you expect from each other.
• Talk Dirty with Each Other
Sexual desire is like a glue that keeps both of you from drifting apart. Sex is just not biological, but emotional as well.Tease each other by sending text filled with sexual innuendos and provocative descriptions, will make you both feel romantic.
• Set a Goal in Mind
Mark down the estimated times apart and times together and draw an end goal. No couple can be in long-distance relationship for forever. You need to settle down.
• Be Available, When Your Partner Needs You
Though, you are far from each other, but you should be emotionally and mentally with your partner, whenever he needs you. Supporting each other creates an interdependence that is crucial for long-distance relationship.
• Know Each Other’s Schedule
Never disturb your partner when he is in his office or any work area. For this, you need about his schedule. You should know the small and big events that are taking place or will take place in each other’s life. This is essential when the both of you are living in different time zones.
• Make Each Other Feel Special
There is a power memento. Send small gifts, cards, flowers, small pendant or a bottle of fragrance without any reason. Sending gifts surprising will make your partner feel so special. Send gifts, bouquets, cakes or anything on your birthday and anniversary, will work as a icing on the cake.
• Remain Positive
Realize that the distance will also push both of you to be more creative when it comes to communicating and expressing your feeling. The waiting can be painful, and you can sometimes feel lonely buy you need to remind yourself that the fruits at the end will be sweet as heaven.
• Give Pet Names to Each Other
It’s a very cute and lovely feeling, when your partner calls you by some pet name. It keeps the lovey-dovey going.
• Update each other’s on friends and family
Gossips and scandals are always the best things to go on and on about.
What’s been important in your own long-distance relationship? Let us know in the comments!