When it comes to relationship compatibility, it’s so important to simply care for each other-to consistently like, respect and support each other as autonomous individuals. Shared beliefs can be valuable to achieving relationship compatibility, but separate interests are also expected.
Couples should encourage each other to enjoy their interests and share them with others. They should also be open to engage in each other’s interests and giving things a try. You should always aim to show acts of love in a way that an outside observer would perceive as loving.
A Marriage license doesn’t come with a job description or a set of instructions. There is definitely “some assembly required.”
What happens when you are not compatible with your partner?
• You fight like guttersnipes on innocuous issues.
• You disagree with your partner rather than agree with him/her.
• You have nothing in common with your partner.
• Your married life turns nightmarish and hellish.
• You revolt against your spouse rather than relent and adjust.
There’re also a number of very important factors which determine for how long your relationship can last. Below are some signs for reference for you to see whether you and your partner are compatible.
• You are looking forward to growing old together
There is nothing as a sweet as young love and when both the partners are crazy about each other. Compatible partners do not resist these changes, be it in the person or the relationship, and look forward to growing old together.
• Fights and arguments don’t make you weak
Arguments between partners help them test the relationship on many levels. But a lot depends on how you handle arguments and fights.And you’re not afraid of it! If you tell your partner you disagree with them, they should listen to you and take you seriously. If they still disagree, it’s ok, it’s just a disagreement and you should not feel weak.
• You know things about each other no-one else does
Honesty is important in a relationship, but actually wishing to tell them secrets shows your partner that you are truly invested in the relationship. Sharing secrets can show how compatible you and your partner really are.
• You share common interests
Having common ground with a partner helps in long term relationships- from supporting the same team, to cooking together, to sharing a love of the same TV show.
• Your partner makes you want to be a better person
Whether you are learning how to cook a new dish, or getting a promotion at work, your partner should always have your back and support you.
• You’re attracted to each other
Sex isn’t everything, it’s Important to be physically intimate like from holding hands to kissing, compatible couples regularly show each other affection.
• You make the effort
Compatible couples often go the extra mile as it shows their partner they care and can help to make them feel appreciated.
• You can be yourself around your partner
Whether you feel happy, hyper, sad or angry, you should be able to comfortably Express these emotions to your partner, without worrying about the consequences.
• Your family and friends know them well
If you’re in a great relationship, you should be excited to show your partner off around your friends and family. It also shows they are actively involved in your life, which is a great sign for a happy relationship.
• You share good or bad news, first with your partner
When you have to share an important piece of news- be it good or bad, your partner is the first person who comes to your mind. You can do so because you are compatible with the person.
• You understand each other’s quirky sense of humour
What is life without a little humour? Unfortunately, not all are blessed with a good sense of humour. If you and your partner share and understand the jokes, which other don’t, you definitely share a good compatibility.
The ideal compatibility can be yours when you reciprocate to the loving gestures of your partner with equal love.